{"id":148,"date":"2018-01-15T14:48:59","date_gmt":"2018-01-15T19:48:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mire.zonart.co\/?p=148"},"modified":"2025-05-17T15:53:33","modified_gmt":"2025-05-17T19:53:33","slug":"tu-peux-partir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mireformations.com\/fr\/tu-peux-partir\/","title":{"rendered":"Tu peux partir"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>Devrais-je lui dire qu\u2019elle peut partir ?<\/h2>\n<blockquote><p>Cette question m\u2019est souvent pos\u00e9e. J\u2019ai d\u00e9j\u00e0 \u00e9t\u00e9 t\u00e9moin d\u2019une situation o\u00f9 le conjoint aimant a dit avec beaucoup de tendresse: \u00ab Tu peux partir. \u00bb La r\u00e9action de la conjointe en fin de vie a \u00e9t\u00e9 d\u2019une telle tristesse, qu\u2019elle a cru \u00e0 ce moment que son conjoint en avait assez de la voir ainsi.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Depuis ce jour, je fais tr\u00e8s attention \u00e0 l\u2019utilisation de cette phrase. Cette situation d\u2019une grande tristesse m\u2019a aussi amen\u00e9 \u00e0 r\u00e9fl\u00e9chir sur le sujet. Dire \u00e0 un \u00eatre cher qu\u2019il peut partir, se laisser aller, n\u2019est-il pas comme de lui donner une permission? J\u2019en suis venu \u00e0 l\u2019id\u00e9e que l\u2019intention avec l\u2019utilisation de ce type de phrase est de rassurer la personne mourante. J\u2019opte donc maintenant pour l\u2019expression d\u2019un message en \u00ab je \u00bb rassurant l\u2019autre. Par exemple : \u00ab Je suis bien, je vais m\u2019en sortir, m\u00eame si j\u2019ai \u00e9norm\u00e9ment de peine \u00bb ou encore \u00ab Maman, tu vas mourir et c\u2019est comme si une partie de moi-m\u00eame s\u2019\u00e9teignait. D\u2019un autre c\u00f4t\u00e9, tu nous entends, on se rem\u00e9more plein de souvenirs d\u2019enfance et de jeunesse. Maman, tu vas toujours rester vivante dans notre m\u00e9moire. Merci pour tout ce que tu nous as transmis. \u00bb<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Suggestion site web :<\/strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/palli-science.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">http:\/\/palli-science.com<\/a><br \/>\n<strong>Suggestion de lecture :<\/strong> La mort intime de Marie de Hennezel, 2006<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;<\/p>\n<a href=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/tu-peux-partir.pdf\" \n                       target=\"_blank\" \n                       class=\"av-button \">\n                       T\u00e9l\u00e9chargement du .pdf\n                    <\/a>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Devrais-je lui dire qu\u2019elle peut partir ? Cette question m\u2019est souvent pos\u00e9e. 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